How to choose a man when youre a single mom

Lets face it, being a single mom is tough. Picking the right man for your family is tougher.

Instructions:

Step 1. When meeting a man for the first time, be honest about your homelife. Explain to him that you have children. Dont assume he is "the one" right away.
Step 2. After you have dated this man for a while let him meet your children. (after a background check of course). Listen to your children and watch how he reacts to them.
Step 3. Ask your children their honest opinion. Believe it or not unless you have very young children, they will know who is best for their mom. If your kids "hate" the man you are seeing, guess what? There is probably a very good reason for this
Step 4. Be patient with both your children and your man. Dont expect instant sparks, wait it out. And please, dont let your children call every man you date "uncle".

Source : momof3infl ( eHow)